MARILYN MONROE

Enneagram Type 3 (The Achiever) with a 4 Wing


Studio publicity still, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

Why we think Marilyn Monroe is a Type 3

  • Demeanor. Monroe could be coy, flirtatious, and was an expert at commanding attention, yet beneath the glamorous façade, there were glimpses of an inner melancholy and complexity that added depth to her persona. (this is also indicative of her 4 Wing). 

  • Drive for success. Monroe was relentlessly ambitious in her pursuit of success. She moved from a troubled childhood and series of foster homes to become one of the most famous movie stars in Hollywood history. She took acting, singing, and dancing classes to improve her skills and chances of success. Once on the set, Monroe was known to ask for scenes to be reshot over and over again until she was fully satisfied. It wasn't unusual for her to require 50-60 takes in some scenes! She stated, "We are all of us stars, and we deserve to twinkle." 

  • Image-conscious and chameleonic. She worked hard to maintain her glamorous and seductive image, often spending hours on her makeup and outfits. She began her career as a model, where she dyed her brown hair blonde and later adopted the name "Marilyn Monroe". This complete transformation into a different persona highlights her ability to adapt to circumstances to improve her chances of success. Her image as the blonde bombshell was carefully curated to suit the expectations of the era and to carve her niche in Hollywood.

  • Fear of failure. Monroe's fear of failure was well-documented. She often suffered from stage fright and was known to be excessively nervous before performances.

  • Attention-seeking behavior. Monroe was known for her dramatic entrances and for commanding attention when she walked into a room. She reportedly once said to a friend, "Do you want to see me be 'her'?", before transforming her demeanor and attracting immediate attention from onlookers, demonstrating her understanding of her star power and how to use it to attract attention. She also modeled her persona and poses after Jean Harlow.

Marilyn Monroe quotes that show she is a Type 3

  • "Success makes so many people hate you. I wish it wasn't that way. It would be wonderful to enjoy success without seeing envy in the eyes of those around you."

  • "I've often stood silent at a party for hours listening to my movie idols turn into dull and little people.”

  • "If I'd observed all the rules, I'd never have got anywhere."

  • "The body is meant to be seen, not all covered up."

  • "All we demanded was our right to twinkle." 

  • "I don't want to make money. I just want to be wonderful."